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Great stuff Pamela. You are awesome

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Thank you Dean!

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Thanks, Pamela. I drift at times. I needed this today. I hope you have a great day!

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It's okay to be empty at times. For me it often coincides with quiet. Glad this resonated. Be well...

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TY. 😊

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Balance ❤️ sat chit ananda.

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Yes!

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This was really helpful. Much easier for me to be compassionate to others than myself.

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Monica, I can relate to that. I am a bundle of nerves lately and welcome finding something to distract me from my woes, and focus my compassion on others.

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Thanks for sharing, Pamela. That nihilistic nothingness masquerades well as the empty mind. I try to remind myself of this when that sense of nihilism appears. For me, being aware of the mind and the present moment tends to centre me best.

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Neil, I remember sitting on the beach in Malibu watching the waves and the surfers about 20 years ago feeling some nihilistic angst. Suddenly I realized I had an empty mind and that brought me center and I found the nihilism had lifted in that shift of perspective. I was grateful and will always remember that.

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Pamela, this post really resonates with me. I love so much of your writing here, but I'll choose one quote: "Despite everything that might happen in our lives, I believe that the light is always there waiting for us. Perhaps we must go out with lanterns to find ourselves and our our light." This is a great way to look at the world. And if we can't find the light, it is up to us to light our own way.

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Hi Beth, I am so glad this post resonated with you. I am thinking of you and hoping that the light is with you.

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Thank you for this Pamela. The light is always there, we just have to be willing to see it.

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Absolutely James, Absolutely. Thank you! I am still marveling at your new path. What a light you will shine.

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Thank you so much Pamela. The light is there, the road to it just isn’t always straight and is often uphill—but the sweetest views are atop hills.

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So true James, the sweetest views are atop the hills!

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Thank you, Pamela. I really appreciate the message here, it's resonant and transcendent, especially at the end of a long winter. A great reminder to emerge into the light.

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Heidi, I am glad this post resonated with you. It has been a very long winter. So much upheaval. Spring is coming... The light is coming too. Thank you!

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Take good care this weekend!

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Thanks Heidi, you too! I am about to hit the couch for the night.

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Excellent, you have the full support of the Critters.:)

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That is a wonderful essay and is not at all empty. Quite the opposite. A pleasure to read.

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Thank you Allan! I hope you are getting settled in.

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💞

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"In “nihilistic nothingness,” we lose sight of everything including ourselves."

I have been loitering in this place for many days Pamela, I can't even begin to tell you how I appreciate this post - Thank you from my heart my lovely friend. 🙏🏼xx

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